IWelcome to Mastering Life and Happiness
Love Yourself
Mastering love and happiness is
life’s greatest legacy to human race.
Unless we uncover the secret to love and happiness, success is nothing
but just an objective desire and achievement.
Love is the master key to ones
happiness. It is the gateway to never-ending success in life. An individual
must have a tender regard firstly for himself before he could evolve in all
levels of human relationship. To love
oneself despite human faults and distorted beliefs, it is the first task a
human being must need to set himself/herself. Then as he/she begins to feel
worthy, love for everyone and everything else follows. This
is the primary need for an individual to start with love and compassion for
himself/herself, or he/she will never have sufficient to give away. As we all know love is the beginning of
everything in this world. A person who
would like to initiate a change in his life for the better must engender the
prevalence of love in his inherent thoughts, feelings, emotions and
behaviour. Bequeathing tender regard
for himself ameliorates his maladaptive conception about life and its human
relationships. He should think of himself as a worthy person and value himself
just as much other would regard him. If he loves himself, he would believe in
his ability to master change and enhance his self- esteem. Everything about
loving himself falls in one place to start a new life. Love conjures happiness and harmony in our
well being once he set himself to foster love in his heart, then that unveils
the moment when he begins to accept himself, he emerges out from his denial,
defence mechanisms, confusion and masquerading act and sees clearly his
apparent failures. His sense of sensibility
is enlighten to make the most rational decision of reinforcing positive changes
and rid of the old negative habits that had languished in his attitude for
sometime. To get a better insight of
his inherent nature, he must love himself to journey in the most intricate
facades of life. He must be in a circle
of love to come in to terms of his dilemma and problems, for love reverberates human acceptance and fights human rejection. His
acceptance in his circle of family, friends and society would unleash all his
negative attitudes and all undermining personal weaknesses and harnesses his
strengths to reach the crowning glory of success. Love has never been a traumatic issue of life. It is down
to us human beings how we relate to the changing events in life, how we deal
with it and how we perceived it in the most logical manner. It is our way of
thinking that creates the impurities in love, our luscious desire for fame and
power, our pessimistic ideas in our mind, our illusive thoughts that entangles
the immorality in love. The idea of love is extracted from God’s divine and
infinite love for mankind. God has given us wisdom to understand the righteous
way of living so it depends us how we are going to experience it in the most
delightful or distressful manner.
People who are grief stricken because of divorce or relationship problems must
maintain love shining in their hearts however this notion is difficult to adopt
if your heart is engulfed with sorrow, animosity and resentment. As long as love is embedded within our
hearts, nevertheless of the pain that we have to bear as broken hearted
individuals, it would galvanize our strengths to positive action to seek a
better understanding of human relationships and withstand the test of time that
would help us to move on. But being trapped in avalanche of hatred and
acrimonious grievances then all subsequent events and courses of our life are
reprobated. We are caught in a seemingly hopeless situation unless you begin to
open your heart. Love is a beautiful
emotional level of existence, nevertheless fallacious opinions occur because of
the dilemmas that are encapsulated behind the embodiment of real love. The
negative forces that we experience as we journey in the orbit of love are just
temporary ones. Our journey in the most exhilarating times of our life to find
the true quest for love is a challenge to our human fortress. Always remember
true love brings everlasting happiness. Unless you love yourself, how are you
going to loved others and find true love?
In any therapeutic relationship, the outcome depends on the successful
bonding between the therapist and the client; it must be a mutual give and take
relationship just like a newly wed couple to reach their mutual goal.
Our preconception about love for ourselves would have a tremendous impact on how
we are going to evolve with our day-to-day therapeutic relationship. The
song entitled “ Imagine” by John Lennon have codified the beauty of love
immersing in a world of peace and harmony where people are bonded in the spirit
of love, no war, no hunger, no poverty, no problems because love makes them
feel human beings. I have written few quotes in support of the human
concept of love, which could help any reforming individual reaches his goal
once he knows the meaning and purpose of love to humanity and above most to
love him. .
a. Love is the beginning and the ultimate journey in life.
b. It is love that makes us feel human beings.
c. The language of humanity is love. For in love, humanity is born.
d. Where there is love, there is light, where there is light, there is hope, where is hope, there is life on the horizon…
e. The circle of love reverberates human acceptance and fights human rejection
